Top Tips - Part 1

I guess one of the things that are clear from the moment you read through CL in Aberdeen is that Men post more than woman; well I guess it’s the case all over and not just Aberdeen. Men look for more and, let's be honest about this, are much more willing to get their cock out. 

So unless you’re gay or bisexual, the chances are you haven’t had much luck on CL.  dont expect this to change, lol.......

I was going to give away all my secrets, but fuck it, I can’t do that, and everyone would then know my tricks, so tips it will be....

My top 3 tips to you :

1.       You have more chance of getting lucky be replying to ads other than posting.  In my experience I have posted many ads, and generally you don’t get any replies from genuine users, well I have had a few, but I mostly find that the scammers will mail you.  you have more luck of getting a reply from a woman if she has posted the add.

2.       Attach a genuine picture...of your face! Yes, the casual section is for sex etc but girls are more drawn to faces first and then the sexual organs after.  And make sure its upto date not taken 10 years ago.

3.       Stick within the requirements otherwise you are wasting your time and the females time! If she writes in her ad that she wants a 6ft tall guy or a guy under 60 years of age, she is not going to be happy if she opens a mail from a 5ft 70 year old!  And if she says she want a woman, yes you got it.  dont fucking email her dafty...

Pay attention to number 3 above, meeting the requirements is crucial.

So some of the sites that I use are listed below.

Aberdeen Vivastreet(throws up the odd one now and again)

AdultFriendFinder(free chat room) (if your keen to travel then you will be lucky)

Benaughty(I seem to have a good hit rate hear)

PlentyOfFish (had a few from here over the years, not so many uses now, but still some)

Girlsdatforfree(threw up may a lass over the years)

Some of these sites you will have to pay for, and it may take you months to get your profile noticed, and again, you will get fake adds contacting you.  But I guess it’s all an experience, some people I have spoken to have had no luck on benaughty(again if they have a cock pick, maybe that’s the reason, I have a face pic up, so you profile does matter, make it good, put some thought in it.)

I hope in the weeks to come that I can get a lady who uses CL for pleasure not for business(charging ££) to write a little piece for the blog and list what she is looking for and some  very clear do's and don’ts would be good, or comment here…

So next Part I will cover spotting the fake emails.

Happy reading and keep the comments flowing